Indianapolis, IN

ACAP Indy Metro North

Next Program

Let Your Light Shine!

Tuesday, December 8, 2026 · 5:30 PM – 7:00 PM

Let Your Light Shine!

Tip out the stones. Let it glow!As Kevin Wanzer shares it, Hawaiian wisdom says we're all born with a bowl of light. Caregiving, the holidays and running on fumes drop stones in until the glow gets dim. This isn't another to-do. It's permission to tip out the stones, laugh without guilt, and enjoy one good hour with people who get it. Laughter is the best medicine. Yes, it's a cliché, and yes, we're still going with it. When you're the one holding everything together, a real, belly-deep laugh in a room full of people who understand does something a to-do list never will. Wear your loudest Hawaiian shirt! We promise not to judge. Presenting Kevin Wanzer, CSP Kevin Wanzer is a motivational comedian and Certified Speaking Professional with 40+ years on stage and 3,000+ audiences behind him. He is also a caregiver for his own mom. His tagline says it all: Inspiring Audiences – One Laugh at a Time™. Kevin brings the aloha, and sends you home lighter than you came. You'll Walk Away With • A big, guilt-free laugh you didn't plan on • Proof that self-care is part of caring for them • A room full of people who get it (and new friends)

Who We Are

Caring for aging parents while managing your own life? You’ve found your people.

ACAP Indy Metro North exists because we know the reality: you’re navigating doctor’s appointments, medication lists, financial decisions, and family dynamics—often without a roadmap. You’re doing your best, but sometimes you need answers, connections, and the reassurance that comes from others who truly understand.

Maybe your parents are doing fine right now. Dad’s 70, still active, handling things on his own. You’re watching, but not worrying—yet. That’s exactly when you need to be here. Because the families who handle transitions smoothly? They’re the ones who prepared before the emergency room visit, before the fall, before the diagnosis that changes everything overnight.

And if you’re in your 30s or 40s? You’re not too young to be here. In fact, you’re exactly the right age to think strategically—about long-term care insurance while you’re still insurable, about asset protection for your own family’s future, about the lessons you’re learning now while caring for parents that will shape how you age. Aging isn’t something to fear or avoid—it’s the natural order of life. Those who embrace it and plan for it? They age smart. They protect what matters. They’re ready.

We gather monthly to bring you expert guidance on the topics that keep you up at night—and the ones you don’t know should be keeping you up at night. Healthcare navigation, legal protections, financial planning, memory care, housing transitions, and everything in between. You’ll discover questions you didn’t know to ask and get answers before you desperately need them.

Whether you’re in full caregiving mode, just starting to notice changes, planning ahead for your own future, or simply being proactive while your parents are still independent—this is your space. Real conversations with people who get it. Local resources that actually help. Expert insights that turn overwhelming scenarios into manageable plans. And permission to take a breath and know you’re doing better than you think.

Be proactive, not reactive. When a crisis strikes at 2 AM, you’ll be grateful you already know who to call, what documents are in place, and what options exist. Don’t wait until you’re making major decisions under pressure.

Join us the second Tuesday of every month. Walk in with your questions—or just walk in to learn what questions you should be asking. Leave with answers, connections, and renewed confidence for whatever the road ahead brings.

Programs

Get in Touch

Email: indymetronorth@acapcommunity.org

Phone: 317.945.0715

Mailing Address:
859 Arrowwood Drive
Carmel, IN 46033

Meeting Address:
Church at the Crossing/The Haverstick - Door 10 (right off Haverstick Road)
9111 Haverstick Rd
Indianapolis, IN 46240

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Videos

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From Driver to Passenger: Transitions for Older Adults - ACAP Indy Metro North, July 2026 Program

Shielding Loved Ones from Scams and Fraud - ACAP Indy Metro North, June 2026 Program

Preventing Falls: Helping Older Adults Stay Safe - ACAP Indy Metro North, May 2026 Program

Leadership Team

The following individual and organizational community leaders provide leadership for this chapter:

  • Knute Rotto
    Chapter Coordinator / Certified Senior Advisor, OwnerSenior Care Authority
  • Megan Manges
    Chapter Coordinator / Community Relations DirectorTraditions at Solana
  • Jennifer Buddenbaum
    Marketing Director / Volunteer Coordinator, Dignity & Hope Hospice & Palliative Care
  • Ryan Levengood
    VP of Business Development - The Restoracy
  • Becky Fee
    Project Coordinator, University of Indianapolis Center for Aging & Community
  • Sheryl Hamer
    Owner & Attorney, Life By Design Estate & Elder Law
  • Tara Hastings
    Alzheimer’s Caregiver, WISH-TV Meteorologist
  • Bill Higgins
    President, Nora Mental Health
  • Janet Pillsbury
    Community Engagement Professional, Centerwell Primary Care
  • Emily Schwindler
    Certified Thanatologist, Director of Operations & Engagement, Aaron-Ruben-Nelson Mortuary
  • Leo Rafail
    Community Engagement Coordinator, End Lung Cancer Now

Core Sponsors

Thank you to these core organizations that help support the work of this chapter.

Aaron-Ruben-Nelson MortuaryCareforthCenterWell Primary CareLori Shanahan, Compass

ACAP Indy Metro North

Community Partners

Join forces with ACAP Indy Metro North to amplify the reach of our educational programs and resources. We collaborate with esteemed non-profit Community Partners to spread awareness and support.